Top Tips For Orgasmic Pleasure: and it's not all
about sex positions....
We have revised the page of
sex tips you can find here, to give you some ideas
on how to change the missionary position for the better. In addition, here are
some other ideas for adding variety to your sex life.
Variations on a theme
It is surprising how few couples try new
positions such as
the woman sitting on
her man's lap with her back to him to enjoy sex. We tend to stick to
popular and favorite positions like the very popular "missionary" or man on top position.
This is the one everyone knows well;
it's the position most probably used by the majority of young couples when
they enjoy sex for the first time; and it remains a staple of the sexual
repertoire of most men and women. And it is very satisfying - there's no
doubt about that, but it can be improved by a few simple variations. For
example, if the female partner keeps her legs horizontal on the bed, the
man's ability to penetrate her is rather limited - he may find as little
as two thirds of his penis can enter her, depending on a number of factors
including the size of his cock and the exact position of the entry to her
vagina (specifically, how far forwards or backwards it is positioned). When the woman lifts up her knees so that the soles of her feet are flat
on the bed, her partner will be able to enjoy increased depth of penetration.
In fact, the more she lifts her knees towards her chest,
the deeper he
will be able to enter her. This is very satisfying, but to fulfill the
desire for the deepest penetration of all, a desire which can overtake
both the woman and the man during lovemaking, she should lie on her back
on the bed with her legs hanging over the edge. In this sex position, penetration
can be even deeper than when a couple make love in the man on top
position. If you try this, have the woman keep the soles of her feet flat
on the floor.
The woman on top position with the woman
lying full length on top of the man tends not to offer great depth of
penetration. To get deeper penetration into her vagina in this position,
the woman should kneel or squat astride her partner, facing him. (Although
you can try this while she faces away from him, the angle of vagina and
penis may not match very well, and he may find it an uncomfortable strain
on his erection). After his penis is in her vagina, she should sit firmly down on his thighs:
this provides the greatest depth of penetration when the woman holds
herself upright. When she leans forward or backwards the depth of
penetration will lessen. An average size penis can provide intense
sensations during sex in this position, and even a smaller one can also
produce wonderful sensations of filling or even stretching
the vagina.
You can see our description of the best positions
for getting good depth of penetration during sex
here, but in general the best position for this is where the woman kneels for sex, her weight supported on
her arms, with her partner kneeling behind her before he enters her. Most couples find that in
this position the entire length of his penis will go in easily. If the woman
adopts the same position on a low bed but keeps her feet on the floor at
the side of the bed, she can open her legs to allow him entry to her body,
after which she may close her legs and grip his penis to give both her and her partner a
wonderful sensation of fullness.
You can also find much more on the seated and
rear entry sex positions "revisited" here. Here is some
additional information on
sex positions from About.com.
Movements during sex
Many couples have the idea that the penis
should not be put into the vagina until the woman is practically reaching
orgasm, having been brought to the threshold of orgasm by previous
sex-play. In a way, this is the natural result of thinking that the woman
should reach orgasm at all costs, and the speed with which the man reaches
his climax once his penis is inside his partner, unless he has learned
some ejaculatory control.
But you can use the penis in the vagina
as another variation of sex play. First the man arouses the
woman by stimulating her nipples and clitoris just sufficiently to produce
lubrication, while she does not stimulate the man
in any way at all. As soon as her vaginal entrance is lubricated and open wide enough for
the man to put his penis in without causing her discomfort, he does so. Then
instead of making thrusting movements, he uses a combination of
side-to-side and rotary movements as described
here, at the same time also stimulating any other of her erogenous zones that are accessible.
He can
even apply finger stimulation to her clitoris by putting a hand between
him and his partner, though this can be tiring.
Simultaneous orgasm
Simultaneous orgasm is a very wonderful
experience, but it may not be that easy to achieve. Assuming that you can
both achieve orgasm during intercourse, it's worth knowing that many women
say that their orgasm sensations are
much more intense if they climax first and their man does so about a half
a minute to a minute later. They say that though their orgasm has been
intense, the final movements the man makes to reach orgasm and ejaculate,
and the
spurting of his semen inside the woman's vagina, can bring the woman's
orgasmic sensations to a new peak.
Some women
claim that they have a second orgasm, or if
their initial orgasm has not been very intense, their sexual tension continues to build up
very quickly into a definite second orgasm; and if the man takes two or
three minutes to reach orgasm after she has done so, there may follow a third and even a
fourth real orgasm for the woman. Women who have considered themselves low
in orgasmic response to stimulation have frequently discovered quite by
chance, to their amazement and great delight, that they are capable of
having multiple orgasms, the cumulative effect of which is much more
intense than the effect of simultaneous orgasm.
Read more here....
For incredibly
intense orgasms
Sex positions for
great orgasms
Sex positions for
men with a small penis
Sex positions for
men with a large penis
Sex positions for
the disabled
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We're adding new information all the time. Our
latest batch of pages provides information and advice
on everything from improving the quality of your
orgasm to how to give good oral sex to the
best sex positions! If you're wondering how to
move sex from the mundane or average to the spiritual level of human
interaction, this page on the meaning of sex may be
helpful.
We
remain true to our origins, however: we started out as a simple guide to sex
positions, and we pride ourselves on the breadth and depth of our content and
our ability to explain the pros and cons of just about every position you could
ever think of. But sometimes it's helpful to go back to basics: so we also have a
simple summary of
the various sex positions you can use in your
lovemaking, explained in clear straightforward language, with plenty of clear
pictures to illustrate what we're describing.
We have just added a
new section on sexual healing
aided by massage of the vagina and G spot.
Mixed in among these pages, we also have our
ever-popular sexual advice pages, partly made up of questions mostly sent in by
our loyal readers over the last few years, together with answers provided by our
resident team of sex experts, not just on the subject of sex positions, but also
about many other aspects of sex and relationships. This helpful general advice
includes a number of pages with helpful tips
on sex positions and general advice on sex, all
of which we offer as a contribution to greater sexual knowledge.
Among them is one that turned out to be a controversial feature a couple of
years ago, describing our view of the sort of
mistakes women sometimes make during sex.
We've found, over the years, that even though sex is such an intimate thing, it
can produce so much shame and embarrassment that many people grow up lacking
even basic knowledge which could help them enjoy it even more. For that reason,
we've produced a series of pages on specific sexual issues. Here are some of
them: If you're making love for the
very first time, we have a page devoted to
best ways to lose your virginity. And if you're more
experienced, and just want to spice up your love life,
truly passionate ways to have sex are listed here. Should you be a man
with a smaller than average endowment, this may be a problem unless you know
about
sex
positions for men with a small penis. Of course, while you may be self-conscious if your
penis is smaller than average, your partner probably doesn't care at
all about the size of your organ. But, if you use these sex positions, you'll be able to make
great love to her! We also now have new advice for men with
a smaller than average penis during sex (remember - that makes
up half of all men). For more serious sexual problems, we have built a special
website which deals with the problem of not being able to ejaculate during sex
or masturbation, a condition known as
delayed ejaculation. And if
you're wondering what other people do in the bedroom, and how it compares to
your own sex life, you might just be able to find out with our
survey of sexual behaviour. We asked a
sexual therapist to give us her view of what women want from sex and
relationships, and among other advice, she came up with a page of
sex positions to help women reach orgasm
during intercourse.
Our sexual techniques pages cover a whole range of
subjects: for example, one of the most popular is about
sex
positions for orgasm during intercourse; we have many others, on subjects as
varied as enjoying passionate sex, relaxing into gentle sex, and the best ways
to enjoy romantic sex. We explain the best sex positions for large people, the
best ways to enjoy sex in pregnancy,
and the easiest ways to enjoy
sex with deep
penetration. Our colleagues at
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content!" So now we have even more sexual techniques for you to enjoy! There's even a feature on
advanced
sexual positions (that means the kind of acrobatic postures you can hardly
imagine using every day!). If you want a more relaxed lovemaking experience, try
the range of gentler
sitting
positions and of course the old favorite of
man on
top and all the variations it offers. If you're a beginner in the art of
lovemaking, start with our
basic sex positions pages. These will give you all the background you need
to understand sex and the various techniques available to you. With
our advice, you'll be prepared for everything - whether that's making
love for the first time, or going to bed with a new partner in one of the
following positions -
man on top;
rear entry;
woman on top; and, last but not least,
side by side.
We have many useful sex advice
pages which include tips to improve your sex life and what women
think of various sex positions. We also cover common
sex problems and offer readers' advice; a very
useful feature which has gained much applause is our page about how you should
put a condom on during sex. And if all of that isn't enough,
we describe oral sex (fellatio and cunnilingus); this is the place to go for
information about
positions
for oral sex. If you're looking for something in particular, our
site map shows you all of our content at a
glance. So, if you're wondering, say, "Does sex
really have to involve intercourse?" (we'd say definitely not!) or,
"How on earth can we spice up our sex lives?" the site map might be the right
place to start looking for the answers.
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